One on one Coachingpaulsdunne2019-11-13T21:14:35+10:00
Here is a holistic approach towards freedom, through the realisation of personal power to create the life wanted
through insight for personal power
Sessions with Integrity Matters Holistic Counselling & Therapy
General introduction and explanation of holistic approach
The purpose of this first few minutes, is to provide you the client with an explanation of the underlying premise for adopting a holistic approach. It may be something you already know in which case it will become more of a “what have you used before for your circumstances; what has worked and what hasn’t worked” type of chat.
Setting an intention for the session and therapy journey
Tell your brief story of what brought you to the session and what you would want to achieve in the session/s. We will consider what it is that you would like to change in your life experience and how will we know when you have reached this point.
Making a connection with the inner mind’s data bankthrough the heart
For those who are not familiar with the use of body language (applied kinesiology) for accessing the database of the heart, we will have a little demonstration of and learning. This is the beginning of an interaction with your Inner mind and via your heart.
Sometimes what we ‘think’ is the underlying cause of the problem/pain, is not necessarily the case. In this session, we are able to establish the connection with your heart and inner mind, allowing the head to look on rather than direct. We adopt the attitude that it is difficult to trust the head. Your head is desperate to maintain control while your heart is always guiding you even through the tough decisions. Subsequently, we are able to ask the heart what is the underlying cause of any particular emotional or psychological state.
A great deal of our exploration will focus on the underlying emotional charge attached to memories stored in your inner mind.
It is the emotional charge of these memories which are ‘triggered’ by the people, places, events and objects in our life. (see below)
Clearing or releasing the underlying core emotions that support your pain
Effectively, we reprogram the inner mind to accept a more empowering belief than the one it has been engaging. This current belief it has about you living in this world is contradicting what your heart knows to be the truth about you.
For this we will employ a variety of techniques, some very basic and mundane and some a little out there. We will ask your inner mind through your heart which technique would be most efficient and proficient for this clearing process.
As the process takes place there will be insight, intuition, guidance and inspiration flowing for your greater good and healing. Needless to say, everyone else will benefit from your healing process.
During the entire process you will be supported, guided and taught how to do the work for yourself.
Now to take away what you have gained into the practical world.
The aim of any session is to have you empowered to address your unique life matters within. Together, we will consider what you can do for yourself in between session for your continued healing now that you are empowered for change.
You will be supported during sessions for your continued healing and expansion.
The purpose of therapy is nowhere near empathy or sympathy. The essence of therapy is compassion coming from a place of high vibration.
Let us take a look at what you will take away with you
You will have shared only as much of your story that you feel comfortable sharing. In the beginning we can work on underlying issues without you telling all of your story.
You will have learnt how to access you store of memories from prior to birth to present moment through the use of your body language. You will be taught your own comfortable way of accessing this data bank.
You will have clarity around the underlying issues contributing to your current state of being. None of this work is about blame or shame for self or others. This is about taking your ability to respond to your circumstances through empowerment.
You will have insight from your inner mind through your hearts communication.
You will have a holistic perspective or your situation including a spiritual context.
At all times you will have access to ask questions and gain clarity. These are your sessions for you to access the best you can for you.
There is no office for sessions.
Face-to-Face sessions will take place in a location chosen by you the client. This venue will be appropriate for your needs, a little private depending on your needs and respectful for both you and the practitioner.
Length of session: 1.5 hours
Fees for sessions: Integrity Matters has no capacity to access Government or private health insurance rebates.
Fees for sessions: This will vary with age. For those 25 years and younger the fee for a session will be AU$80.
Fees for sessions: For clients over the age of 25 years the fee is AU$120.
Phone, Video Link Sessions
Electronic connected sessions operate under the same criteria as Face-to-Face sessions.
Choice of format is negotiable between client and the practitioner.
Surrogate & Distance Healing Sessions
For those who are interested in checking out the possibility of a surrogate session, or a distance healing session, below you will find a brief description. If you think this might be of some interest for you or for a young person or child, please feel free to contact Integrity Matters via the email link or contact page.
We have a particular interest in providing distance healing sessions for children and young people. While we have used this technique with significant, if not surprising results, we want to offer this option as a free service through negotiation… for now. Preferably we would like this service to be via a gifting program where a gift is given towards the provision of services for young people who need support.
Surrogate sessions are useful and practical when the client is not able to participate directly in the session and they are able to use a proxy – another person to be present for their session.
A practical example for this would be the following.
“A mum brings her five-year-old daughter in for a session. The child is not talking and part of the reason for presenting is because the little girl is not talking in class. More than this she has stopped talking in the classroom to a point she chooses to wet herself rather than ask for permission.
It is understandable she would not want to communicate with an older, strange, male in a strange environment.
While the child played in the background, mum offered to tell the background story. This story provided little or no explanation for the behaviour. Mum acted as a surrogate for her child. She focused in on being her child and we went about investigating the underlying causal factors. Following this, we undertook a little clearing of these trapped emotions.
Within two minutes, the little girl got up from playing with her toys and came to where mum and I were seated. She smiled at me and showed me what she had in her hand. It was play-dough formed as a paddy.
I said, “That isn’t a chocolate cake is it?” she smiled and nodded yes.
I said, “Chocolate cakes are my bestest friends in the whole world!” Her little face lit up like a light bulb.
I asked, “Where did you learn to cook chocolate cakes? Was it with your mummy?”
Again she smiled and nodded yes.
She returned to play behind the petition. Mum had tears in her eyes and a look of disbelief on her face.
Mum and I undertook some more investigation and clearing. Following this, the child came around and spoke to me. She told me of her upcoming birthday party. She was to have friends coming. She then took me to her toys and told me showed me a doll for each of her friends.
Mum did return, to tell me how her little girl was now her happy normal self.
That is surrogate work.
Distance healing sessions
Distance healing is a similar process in so far as the client is not physically present. This is even weirder than surrogate sessions but for those who are interested and willing to expand their experiences it can be powerful. To start your own research this youtube is an option. Not the best video but it is ok to listen to as an introduction to the topic. Further information can come from the work of Lynne McTaggart in her books, The Field and The Power of Eight or on youtube here. And if you want a powerful discussion between Lynne’s work and the work of Dr Joe Dispenza go here.
An example of this involves a 6-year-old child. Mum had provided some background information in an effort to explain the unusual behaviour of her child. With this information distance healing takes place, with all the normal practices of investigation, insight and clearing.
The child’s behaviour was presenting as angry, uncooperative, emotional and withdrawn. All attempts by mum to talk with the child, to find out what was happening in the life of this little girl came up with nothing significant. At least nothing stood out. Mum told us the story and asked for guidance. There was not an option for a face to face session with the child, nor was there an option for a surrogate sessions with mum.
The session came up with a list of trapped emotions the child had seemingly influencing the child’s emotional state. After the emotions were identified and cleared a report came back from mum the following day. Mum reported her little girl was a different person who was back to her happy, singing, and loving self.
Distance healing sessions are currently by gifting. All proceeds will be directed towards any young person who is not able to afford a session fee.
Heartfelt thanks go to those clients who have paid forward for young people not in a position to afford regular sessions.